Decision-making · Parenting time · Relocation

Child Custody and Parenting Lawyer in Toronto

Ontario law no longer talks about custody and access. Courts decide decision-making responsibility and parenting time based only on the best interests of the child. Our team helps Toronto parents reach workable parenting plans and, when needed, presents their case in court.

30-minute consultation, $150 plus HST, paid when you book.

Family lawyer in Toronto meeting a client about separation
Overview

Custody in Ontario today

Short answer: Since March 1, 2021 the federal Divorce Act and Ontario's Children's Law Reform Act use the terms decision-making responsibility (who makes major decisions about health, education, religion and significant activities) and parenting time (when the child is in each parent's care). The only test is the best interests of the child.

Civitas Law is a team of legal professionals under the leadership of lawyer Nasibeh Mehrpouyan. We help parents in Toronto and the GTA settle parenting arrangements by agreement where possible and present their case clearly in court when agreement is not possible, in English, French, Farsi, Russian and Serbian.

Best interests

What the court looks at

The court gives primary consideration to the child's physical, emotional and psychological safety, security and well-being. Other factors include:

  • the child's needs, age and stage of development;
  • the relationship with each parent, siblings, grandparents and other important people;
  • each parent's willingness to support the child's relationship with the other parent;
  • the history of care, and the child's views where they can be determined;
  • cultural, linguistic, religious and spiritual upbringing and heritage;
  • any family violence and its impact.
Parenting plans

Parenting plans and agreements

Most parents settle through negotiation, mediation or a written parenting plan included in a separation agreement. A good plan covers the regular schedule, holidays, travel, how decisions are made, communication between parents and how disagreements will be resolved. A plan that is detailed and realistic tends to prevent future disputes.

Court

When the matter goes to court

  • Parents in Ontario family court cases attend a Mandatory Information Program early in the case.
  • Most cases go through a case conference with a judge before any hearing, which encourages settlement.
  • Urgent motions are available where a child's safety is at risk or a child has been withheld or removed.
Relocation

Moving with a child

A parent who plans a relocation that would significantly affect the child's relationship with the other parent must give written notice at least 60 days before the move, with the proposed date, the new address and proposed changes to the parenting arrangements. The other parent can object within 30 days. Courts look closely at the reasons for the move and the impact on the child.

FAQs

Questions we hear often

General information, not legal advice. Every matter is different.

Is custody still a legal term in Ontario?
Not in the legislation. Since 2021 the law uses decision-making responsibility and parenting time, though many people still say custody and access.
Does a mother automatically get custody?
No. There is no presumption in favour of either parent. The court decides based only on the child's best interests.
At what age can a child choose where to live?
There is no fixed age. A child's views are considered and given more weight as the child gets older and more mature, but they are one factor among many.
Can a parenting order be changed?
Yes, if there has been a material change in circumstances affecting the child. The parent asking for the change must show why the new arrangement is in the child's best interests.
Can I travel outside Canada with my child?
Usually you need the other parent's written consent or a court order. A signed travel consent letter is commonly requested at the border.
How much does a child custody lawyer cost in Toronto?
Our first consultation is $150 plus HST for 30 minutes. Legal fees after that depend on the work involved, and we explain them in writing before you retain us.
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Next step

Talk to our team

Book a consultation online or call (647) 271-1646 (the phone is answered 24/7). 30-minute consultation, $150 plus HST, paid when you book. Legal fees after that depend on the work involved, and we explain them in writing before you retain us.

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